Connection · Communication & people skills
Common Ground: conflict resolution training for everyday life
Six short lessons on your default reaction, calming down, hearing their side, finding options, conflict at work, and neighbours, family and mediation.
About this course
Conflict resolution training for everyday life.
Starter · About 1 hour of learning · 6 lessons · 16 quick checks · 1 download
Who it's for
Adults who want to handle disagreements at home, at work and with neighbours calmly and fairly.
How it works
6 guided lessons in your browser, with worked examples, exercises and a quick check after each lesson. Progress is saved in this browser only, and you can restart at any time.
Sources we rely on
17 published sources, mostly regulators and official bodies, listed below so you can check the original guidance yourself.
By the end you can
- Name your default reaction to conflict and its cost
- Use a time-out and calming technique in a heated moment
- Show you’ve understood the other person’s side with a say-back
- Turn positions into interests and workable options
- Know the usual steps for work and neighbour disputes, mediation, and when to get safety support
Downloads
- Conflict resolution workbook .docxFull versions of the course exercises: conflict pattern map, cool-down plan, their-side worksheet, options builder with agreement template, work conversation planner, and dispute steps with a letter template.
Rules by country
Learning time
About 1 hour of learning. May count towards your CPD or professional development; check your professional body's rules. Estimated from reading time, exercises, quick checks and downloads.
Sources
Check the originals.
Drafted with AI assistance and run through automated quality and source checks. How these courses are made. Spotted an error or out-of-date rule? Send a correction.
Not therapy or counselling. If you're struggling, please contact a support service. In an emergency call 000 (AU), 999 (UK), 911 (US/Canada) or 111 (NZ). Anywhere else, call your local emergency number.
- Resolving your problem in the workplace · Fair Work Ombudsman (AU)
- Raising a problem at work · Acas (UK)
- Mediation · Acas (UK)
- Resolving neighbour disputes · GOV.UK
- Dispute Settlement Centre of Victoria · Victorian Government (AU)
- Dispute Resolution Program · Los Angeles City Attorney (US)
- Assertiveness · Better Health Channel (Victorian Government, Australia)
- Relationships: tips for success · Better Health Channel (Victorian Government, Australia)
- Relationships and communication · Better Health Channel (Victorian Government, Australia)
- Anger management · healthdirect (Australian Government-funded health information service)
- Get help with anger · NHS (UK)
- 1800RESPECT: national domestic, family and sexual violence counselling service · 1800RESPECT (Australian Government-funded)
- National Domestic Abuse Helpline · National Domestic Abuse Helpline (England, run by Refuge)
- National Domestic Violence Hotline · The Hotline (US)
- Triple Zero · Department of Infrastructure, Transport, Regional Development, Communications, Sport and the Arts (AU)
- Contact the police · GOV.UK
- National 911 Program · 911.gov, NHTSA (US)
Publisher
Who publishes this course.
Published by trainyourself.org, a trading name of Combine TRS Pty Ltd (ABN 42 112 983 678), Brisbane, Australia.
How it's made: drafted with AI assistance from published official, public-health, university and support-service guidance (general education, not counselling or therapy), then run through automated quality checks against our course depth standard and automated source checks that match each rule to its official source, listed above. The course guide is an AI presenter and is labelled as one. Read how these courses are made.
Last updated:
General education, not counselling, therapy, medical or legal advice. If you are struggling, contact one of the support services named in this course; in an emergency, call your local emergency number. Spotted an error or an out-of-date rule? Send us a correction.
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